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Room to Live: 90 Days to a Clutter-Free Home ebook cover

How to declutter your home WITHOUT feeling overwhelmed

This step-by-step, done-for-you plan will take you from chaos to calm (in just 90 days!) by focusing on areas that make life a little easier, so you can start enjoying your home again as soon as possible.

Get the Room to Live eBook, PLUS all 3 Bonuses (Worth $14)

For Only $9

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You’ll be surprised by how much room you have in your home!

If you’ve run out of space in your home and have been moving piles from one side of the house to the other, you don’t have a storage problem, you have a clutter problem.

Tired of the mess and losing things and running late because you can’t find them? Stop the endless cycle of shove-and-store.

If you’re ready to make a change, I share in this book all the tips and tricks I’ve learned over more than a decade of decluttering my own home and helping others declutter and organize theirs, as a decluttering coach and professional organizer.

There’s a lot of books on decluttering your home, so why read this one? Well, because unlike traditional “neat freaks,” I’m not tidy by nature. And you don’t have to be, either.

I’ve been there and done that and had the frustrating thought of “That’s it. I can’t walk through this room. Something’s got to give!”

So if you’ve ever wanted non-judgemental, slightly quirky, (and sometimes downright unconventional) step-by-step guidance from someone who totally gets it … then this is the book for you.

Here’s a sneak peek of what you’ll discover inside the digital copy of Room to Live: 90 Days to a Clutter-Free Home


  • Why it’s hard for you to let go of things.Ā (And how to work through it.) Chapter 3 dives deep into the reasons we keep things and the impact they have on our daily life.
  • Where clutter hides. It’s sneaky! Chapter 2 talks all about that.
  • The most important part of a decluttering project.Ā It might not be what you think it is … and Chapter 6 will reveal this essential step.
  • What clutter says about you.Ā Hint: you’ve been thinking about your struggle all wrong! And Chapter 3 will tell you why.
  • How decluttering is like budgeting.Ā What’s your space budget? Find out in Chapter 7.
  • What the different kinds of clutter are and why it accumulates in your home. From other people’s stuff to junk mail, Chapter 1 has it covered, and Chapter 3 dives even deeper. And Chapter 9? Well, it tells you the exact order in which to declutter it all.
  • How to deal with guilt, especially if you are worried about getting rid of gifts a friend or family member has given you. Chapter 11 goes over that, and other sticky roadblocks you might encounter while decluttering.
  • What questions to ask yourself while sorting and decluttering. Chapter 9 can help! (And you’ll also get a handy bonus flowchart to use to help if you get stuck on a decision.)
  • The best order in which to declutter your home, including which spots to focus on first, and tips for editing the contents of each of the major areas. It’s all in Chapter 10, Your 90-Day Whole Home Decluttering Schedule.
  • How decluttering brings freedom to your life. Chapter 4 talks about why you should declutter, and all its benefits.
  • What supplies and tools will help the job go easier is covered in Chapter 8.

From helping you identify what kind of clutter you have in your home, to challenging your perspective on “stuff”, to gently guiding you through each step of a whole-home decluttering project. This book covers it all!

If you wish you could use your guest room to host actual guests, or want to be able to walk into your walk-in closet, or have sworn one day your mother-in-law will drop unannounced when the place is clean for once, then this is the decluttering guide for you.

You also get these BONUSES (with immediate access!)

Bonus #1: Companion Decluttering Journal

Value, $7

Room to Live Decluttering Journal preview image

Identify your clutter zones, the types of clutter you struggle with the most, and what roadblocks you are likely to encounter along the way.

Then, consult Room to Live to help you combat those challenges and overcome and let go of clutter in your home.

This 30-page journal will reveal which areas of the decluttering journey are your strengths, and which are your weaknesses, so you can be prepared.

FREE with your order of Room to Live.

Bonus #2: Sorting Signs

Value, $2

Toss / Donate / Trash / Recycle signs

No need to take the time to make signs for your sorted piles of keep, donate, or toss. Simply download these printable signs that are pre-designed for you, print them at home, and you’re good to go!

There are 8 different signs included in the PDF.

Just print and go! These signs will keep you organized while you declutter.

FREE with your order of Room to Live.

Bonus #3: Premiere access to the 7 Steps of Decluttering video, “How to Declutter”

Value, $5

Preview on computer monitor of the How to Declutter video bonus

This video preview of the highlights of Chapter 9 of Room to Live discusses the seven steps of decluttering outlined in the book and gives some quick tips for each step, as well.

These steps are the foundation of the 90-Day Whole Home Decluttering Schedule listed in the book and will be used in each area of your home that you declutter.

If you’re eager to begin decluttering, this video will give you tips to get you started.

FREE with your order of Room to Live.


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How would it feel if you could confidently…


  • Enjoy calmer school mornings because you know where things are and can get out the door without rushing so much.
  • Have more time to play and live in your home. No more putting off family game night because you can’t find the game (or the top of the coffee table).
  • Reclaim your drawers, cabinets, and closets. Have room for the life you live now, and release the things that keep you in the past.
  • Stop the plastic container and lid avalanches because you only kept what you needed.
  • Be able to escape to your bedroom as a grown-up retreat again because it isn’t a storage room for random stuff anymore.
  • Be more productive, because you can easily access everything you need to complete a task.

It really is possible to experience all of these when you declutter your home!

That’s why I wrote this book. I wanted you to have all the tools you need to systematically declutter your home, so you have more space in your living areas, more margin in your life, and more money in your wallet! (Even if you’re short on time and messy by nature.)


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What others are saying about working with me …

I’m not sure that I really listened to all of this before but it sunk in this time. I’m learning to recognize my progress instead of focusing on my expectations. Thank you for your encouragement. It is helping me to get past some previous obstacles. I hope everyone achieves their own personal goals!
Lisa L.
Clutter Fighters Challenge Member
I have become more minimalist which was really my goal with the process. I can tell my mindset has changed.
Emily P.
Clutter Fighters Challenge Member
Why are you doing this to me? These challenges are like daggers through my heart, hitting the nail right on the head! I confess…I’m a piler! šŸ™ˆ
Christine S.
Clutter Fighters Challenge Member

Get the Room to Live eBook PLUS all 3 Bonuses (Worth $14)

For Only $9

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Still have questions?

The Room to Live ebook is a digital product. It is accessible as a PDF and can be read on your computer, tablet, or phone.

After ordering your copy of the PDF edition of the ebook, you will be given access to a link where you will be able to download.

Nope! Any PDF reader will do the trick. If you do not have one on your device, I recommend downloading the free version of Adobe Reader, HERE.

Lifetime! Once you purchase and download it, it is yours to keep.

First things first, it is so amazing that you know this about yourself! That shows incredible self-awareness, and I believe you are so close to being ready.

While I would be the last person to recommend you purchase something you do not need, use, or love, if you purchase Room to Live now, you will also get access to the bonuses offered at this time. (These bonuses may not be available later.)

So if you think you might be ready soon, I’d encourage you to purchase it, grab the bonuses, and read it ahead of time, so you can prepare yourself for the decluttering process.

You can get a great feeling for if you like my style by reading some articles on my blog, thismodernmess.com. But if you have any questions or concerns about if this book can help you and your situation, feel free to email me at [email protected] and ask any questions you’d like and I’d be glad to answer them the best I can.

However, if this will be just another ebook on your device that goes unread … don’t make more clutter, even digital clutter, for yourself.

Individuals who have had enough of the piles and missing items and constantly rearranging stuff just to get it to fit will find this book most useful.

If you’ve seen your kitchen counter recently, but it keeps getting piled high with mail and dishes and random items your kids drop on it, and you want to find it again and are ready to do the work involved in decluttering, this book is for you.

This book is NOT for you if you either struggle with hoarding or are happy with your home’s clutter status exactly as it is and do not want to change it.

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